How are matches related to chatting skills? you chat AFTER your match.
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I’m certain that tinder straight up doesn’t show your profile around if you are male presenting and don’t pay.
I have a female friend who also had tinder and we did a test. I set mine in men looking for women, free account both of us. I got her profile pretty soon, she never got my profile as an option.
It depends.
Those apps rely a lot on your physical appearance, and how good you look in a photograph.
And if you are interested in dating women you’ll have a harder time than if you try to date men.
As a bisexual person every time I open a dating app I have hundreds of likes from men, and barely one or two from women.
Also be aware that experiences for people 10 years ago are not valid now. Enshitificacion have also take it’s tool from dating apps, and experience is way worse than it used to. Last time I opened one I didn’t even got a match in months (until I deleted it). So you would have to mentally prepare for that possibility and keep your self esteem up despite of that.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Programming@programming.dev•AI Models from Google, OpenAI, Anthropic Solve 0% of ‘Hard’ Coding Problems3·8 天前The bullshit is good it triggers the Cunningham’s Law in my brain.
Sometimes it’s easier to come up with a solution correcting something blatantly wrong than doing it from scratch.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•After Israel and USA's bombing, wouldn't any supposed nuclear bombs go off if there were any?13·8 天前Some nuclear bombs are so hard to make explode that they need another nuclear bomb to ignite them.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•I'm the creator of Seedit and I'm here to share how it works and clear up some Concerns/FUDSEnglish6·8 天前So… Are there any cryptocurrencies that the owners hold in mass and are trying to get profit by selling them to users in a “pay to win” system?
Last time I checked bot IPFS and plebbit had those… Which is why I steered away from those projects.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Programming@programming.dev•AI Models from Google, OpenAI, Anthropic Solve 0% of ‘Hard’ Coding Problems285·9 天前They have their uses. For instance the other day I needed to read some assembly and decompiled C, you know how fun that can be. LLM proved quite good at translating it to english. And really speed up the process.
Writing it back wasn’t that good though, just good enough to point in a direction but I still ended up writing the patcher mostly by myself.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why is the progress pride flag so poorly designed (especially the intersex progress pride flag)? Will it be redesigned?23·10 天前Rainbow flag is cool. 🏳️🌈
Due the spectral (is that said correctly?) nature of gender identity and sexual preferences individualized representation of every part of an infinite spectrum is, by definition, impossible. Thus a catch them all flag is the best in representing our diversity.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ@lemmy.dbzer0.com•BitTorrent Pirate Gets 5 Years in Prison, €10,000 Fine, For Decade-Old OffensesEnglish30·11 天前We really need internet beyond ISPs.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What's the best way to respond to a family member who says the COVID vaccines are being used to depopulate?201·11 天前Tell them that’s completely true, and that if they keeps spreading the truth the black vans will come for them, they know too much.
The birds have already heard the rumors, and the clock is ticking. They better do something and shut up before they end up in “the facility”.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you think the solution to selling progressive politics to young men is ?23·11 天前- Win elections without caring how you win.
- Elected representatives do nothing for you , because they only care for wining and they don’t even know how to improve people’s lives.
- Proceed lo lose elections to the worst opposition candidates because wining without substance left people out of any hope for the electoral system.
- Left wing party straight up disappear as it has happened in several european countries because voting for them and make them win achieved anything.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you think the solution to selling progressive politics to young men is ?23·11 天前Wining is not sitting in a particular chair. Much less having some asshole that doesn’t care about you sitting on a chair because they convince you to vote them.
Wining is having a society worth living in.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you think the solution to selling progressive politics to young men is ?21·11 天前We are not talking about science, we are talking about politics.
In science you can study gravity and then your opinion on how gravity works is more important than the opinion of someone who hasn’t study gravity.
But we are talking about politics, politics is about what people want with their lives and how they are able to live those lives. And no matter what have you studied or how much have you studied. The biggest authority on someone’s life it’s always going to be that one person. You are not going to be able to know more about someone’s life, their goals, their fears, their aspirations and hopes, what makes them happy what makes them sad that themselves. Because they live with themselves 24/7 you cannot “outstudy” that.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you think the solution to selling progressive politics to young men is ?1·12 天前Maybe no political party should have more than 5% of the votes. The fact that 50% of the population could agree on all issues doesn’t feel possible to me.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you think the solution to selling progressive politics to young men is ?22·12 天前Why you change my words?
Anyway, they think they know, but they don’t. They don’t know better than anyone else, due the nature of politics their opinion on matters should not have any more weight than the common folk, that’s why we chose democracy as a form of government anyway. If we do not believe in the fact that everyone opinion matter the samy I don’t know why would we pretend it does, let’s stablish an aristocracy and be done with it.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you think the solution to selling progressive politics to young men is ?32·12 天前And what if what you try to accomplish or the way you try to do it is not the way they want it done?
A common problem with the left movements these days is that they put more effort in convincing that in listening, because everyone who becomes politically active automatically thinks they know better than everyone else.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you think the solution to selling progressive politics to young men is ?33·12 天前And the best way to vote against your interest is vote just by following propaganda instead of thinking by themselves what they should do.
Thinking on “how to sell” instead of “what do they need from us” (or even better “what do they tell us to do”) is setting a path for people not thinking and just following propaganda, which makes them more susceptible for falling into other parties propaganda.
The path for good democracy is not enlightened despotism. Is not the representatives telling the people what to do, is the people telling representatives what to do.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you think the solution to selling progressive politics to young men is ?76·12 天前A good politic should not be sold.
People should chose it by themselves because that’s the best thing for them.
daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What happens to the content if an Lemmy instance shuts down?2·13 天前I didn’t know that. That seems to be a very bad decision.
I would have thought there was some sort of private public key involved in instance authentication.
I mean… why do that?
If the government want to kill people in a country where they can get away with it they’ll just send armed men to shoot them.
Poisoning water supply is something the joker would do in a comic book, but on reality it won’t make a lot of sense for any big city. Going there and shooting people is probably much more effective, less expensive and let you with a not-poisoned city to settle with your own people.