https://alternativeto.net/software/facebook/

“staplegunmans” are definitely my personal worst nightmare as well

No but I discovered this share sheet extension that does similarly: https://apps.apple.com/app/id1598706451

I thought Telegram pretty much was Discord but for people who prefer phones over computers.

Not a bad way to look at it, although I think one-on-one messaging is much more common on Telegram compared to discord, which has its “communities” thing as its main use case.

that’s why I trust it