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Cake day: July 7th, 2023

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  • Your life hasn’t even started yet. Just enjoy your life, your journey. Once you are old enough, you gonna miss this time. It’s one of the best time of your life. Playing with friends, meeting new people, exploring new things, finding hobbies. When I was 17 I was thinking only about girls. I didn’t have much responsibility outside of my study, and the biggest decision I’ve made at that time was choosing which major/ subjects I wanted to study in university. I achieved nothing when I was 17. Now I’m 35 years old, have a wife, a small house which has become our home, a small family with a daughter and a small dog, and am an attending neurosurgeon. I speak 4 languages fluently, can play music instruments (piano, guitar), sing as a hobby. I am satisfied with where I am, and the most important of all, I’m happy. :)

    Just take your time. The fact that you’re thinking about your future means you are already one step ahead of most people your age. Keep doing what you think is right.


  • How old are you OP? Being “normal” isn’t time wasting. You grew up, you went to school, will find a job, find love, maybe build your own family (or not). It’s beautiful. You don’t have to achieve greatness in life. Be yourself, be kind to others and that’s actually enough. If you find something you’re passionate about, and you can dedicate yourself for it and in time be good at it, it’s good! If you have an unremarkable career, it’s also good! The obsession with “success” is not a good thing, in my opinion. Be happy, and be the source of happiness for other people. The time you enjoy wasting is not a time wasted!