For Haskell to land that low on the list tells me they either couldn’t find a good Haskell programmer and/or weren’t using GHC.

This is absolutely true. The women who actually prefer 7+ inches are rare, and most explicitly seeking it haven’t actually experienced it. My girl prefers 5 or smaller because we can’t do the things she enjoys at my size.

The size you’re describing isn’t small enough to even make jokes about. Believe me, I’ve heard women joke about size and it’s the 2 inches or less while erect range; and even then it’s about bad hookups or guys that have been awful to them.
Girls that see random flaccid dick regularly are even less likely to joke about size.

More likely that she was smiling because now she knows you know her friend which means you have a shared outside connection.

The size you describe isn’t small enough to merit being called small. It’s barely below the statistical mean.

What’s more is that waxers are well aware that growers exist, and (at least in my area) that’s mostly what they see. It wouldn’t even be cause for comment. The kinds of things they even bother telling each other about are like people who want fancy patterns waxed, or who have awful smelling active infections and have to be told to go get treated and come back. Occasionally they might talk about big tough guys who end up weeping like a baby (not just tears in the eyes, but bawling), or when they personally make mistakes.

At most your aesthetician told her that you got waxed and how she found out there was a connection. If your coworker bothered asking about your size she’d have gotten the usual response of, “who knows? You can never really tell during waxing because pain and fear of pain shrink things.”

Source: was married to an aesthetician for 10 years.

None that have come up in that time. I’m in my mid 40s now.

I’m personally on a combination of Adderall and Adderall XR and have had the exact same problem (except the insomnia, which I’ve always had). For me it’s about every 5 or 6 months, unless I skip it on the weekends then it’s about every 10 months.

What I do to counteract it is take occasional two week breaks from my meds, just whenever my workload becomes less critical or the side effects get unbearable. I’ve been doing that for about 18 years now, and it works for me.