I can’t leave.

I have a child with an abusive, vindictive ex-spouse. Regardless of me having sole custody, I would still need to get both the court’s permission and his permission just to move out of state, so god knows I will not be able to get out of the country.

I’m at a loss. I will not leave without my kid.

He has a chameleon??? Holy shit, anyone who can keep those goobers alive & healthy are fukkin rad!!

Fan too big. ):

Tbf, I did not build this. A friend did and then sold it to me for a good price! Can’t complain. It’s run pretty good for 6+ years. Though I guess I have no point of comparison.

Finally.

Some good fukkin news.

Because they don’t care about “life”.

They care about punishing people.

All this is doing is proving that god is an asshole.

Except the GOP will absolutely double down and claim that everyone who got hit did something to deserve the suffering.

My sister is in Asheville. She now has no car and just got electricity back on 2 days ago.

She says that her home will not have access to water for 3 months.

Shit’s fuckin’ bad.

Also a reminder that Bandai Namco patented mini-games on loading screens! Now no one else can do that.

When you patent general ideas, you rob people of an experience.

Might as well start patenting art styles at this point.

Yeah, more of an auadhd.

Thank you.

A big part of why I have severe anxiety to this day is because I was exposed to traumatic things far too young/quickly. I was pushed into situations where I was not ready or emotionally/mentally equipped to handle. Constantly.

Exposure is only good if a person is ready for it. Desensitization is only helpful when you are equipped to handle such a thing.

I had an ex who would say that we were doing one thing, then take me to do something completely different, then boast that he was “helping me”, which only heightened my fears in the end. As a foil to that, I had an ex after that who was encouraging and supportive and kind, and gently led me into the same situations, where I knew what I was getting into. Guess how which one had me overcoming my fears?

Exposure works best if you are prepared for the exposure and have the support you need in those kind of situations.

I am always thankful for trigger warnings.

The formalizer is great when I don’t want to think too hard to try and be polite (I can be pretty blunt).

The chef is great, too! I have trouble eating good things and coming up with meal plans.

The magic to-do list os my favorite. Breaks everything down into simple, manageable steps! Love it so much!

Alarms for everything!

And goblin.tools

Sweet sweet ADHD.

Earth-dirt is fine! I know what I’m getting into there.

But I have no idea what horrors have accumulated & combined to make floor-dirt. No thank you.

Oh, I know.

Question from a dummy: why should you use a VPN when visiting?

I am learning all kinds of new and alarming things today!

Thank you!

I was suspicious of that guy!

It’s been removed.👍Thank you!

Oh, I labeled the cords & disconnected them to clean. Slid the side off to give everything a thorough shine!

Problem is: this cables connect to this big ho (which I also had to clean very very heavily).

Looking into my trash, it’s more like half a bucket, the other half being crumpled paper towels.

Sadly, I only remembered to take a single one before the process started. You can see an alarming amount of dust on certain parts if you look closely.

Warning for tech-gore, maybe? Again, I’m not a tech person. The back has always been partially open. This was built by someone else, and it’s… probably not standard.