On ffmpeg, yeah. I can get close to real-time encoding with the new version of libsvtav1 and I save space with around the same visual fidelity as x265, at least, in my experience. If you want to try it out, I recommend using the ab-av1 tool, which automatically finds the best CRF to VMAF for encoding.
edit: Transcoding speeds, I don’t find that it’s slow, even if I’m using software for transcoding, though I’ve only been using it for my Jellyfin server for about a month or so.
Dunno about Plex, but Jellyfin supports AV1 direct play just fine. Just not on Roku, which I mainly use it on. I’m a small-time contributor on the Roku version, though, and there’s progress towards AV1 support, at least.