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Cake day: August 20th, 2023

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  • I know but then it’s so easy to give up, and even if you don’t, the next time something slightly disturbs the balance, such as it being Thursday, you need to achieve a monumental life changing effort again just to do the exact same thing you did for months…? And the crazy thing is that even experts on the subject don’t seem to understand going “it’ll get easier just keep at it” my sister in Christmas, I am fourty freaking years old I don’t think I’ll suddenly be able to not randomly forget brushing my teeth


  • Heyyy bros and sisses. I am currently trying to do this after being fully converted by you guys. I am technically capable and have run Linux before. However, I am unsure if virtualbox is the best to use for this, and where to get isos and stuff… Just generally I searched around for doing precisely this, and there was barely any info available. Maybe I used the wrong keywords?






  • I don’t get how nothing changed for you? Maybe you’re next if a hot new son comes along? Anyway, ofc she shouldn’t demand that but it’s totally understandable when you’ve been betrayed by your family. Really, go to her. She doesn’t choose, but your dad is a major asshole that isn’t honest with his closest people. It’s not good for you to absorb that kind of life. It will punish you your entire life. Yeah. I’m giving you my opinion. You don’t need to do what your mom says, but if you don’t take care of her now she could be ruined forever. I don’t know you, but I know that you deserve a better role model than someone that isn’t man enough to admit he likes a younger girl. Also probably get you therapy. It is more important now than ever probably, and make sure your mom does too if she doesn’t flip back. I’m not saying don’t talk to dad anymore, but jesus christ he’s got a new kid to be with, and you just got a job. I don’t know your age but not stepping up now could be much more devastating than maturing too early. Just trust. People with no respect for themselves will never respect you and vice versa. You make tour own reality.




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    You are the one that misjudged and dismissed me as if I am not allowed to exist unless I accept your choice of what I say and think?

    How are the comments even removed? So you can change what I said? Redicilous.

    I said very clearly “you are more than that” I gave you power. You are better than this.

    And you chose to receive “they want me to not love myself”

    It is your glasses. You interpret the world as judging you and look down on yourself compulsively. You have a victimisation complex and it is something you can do something about if you just stop deflecting any help and issuing a signal to yourself that it is okay to receive help and change.

    Eventually, when you do this to people around you, you will create the exact nightmare you are looking for. Trust me. I have been there.

    There is no reason to dismiss anything I think. You can choose to think otherwise. You don’t have to eject personality to accommodate what others think. You control what you think. I can think other things. It does not mean war. You don’t need to destroy others that think something else. You also might grow if you assume other viewpoints but that’s not step one. Step one is to take others critique in stride. Start by not assuming that it’s war with everyone. If it is, they don’t deserve your attention, but most people that you interact with will be interesting and interested.



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    I don’t really understand, we are discussing if you want to be cured. And you do. No one has said it will destroy your character, except the people that has made these arguments for not curing themselves and they are just fundamentally not understanding how the diagnosis works


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    You don’t understand what it is and has made it your character instead of being yourself. It is not part of your character to have problems that disturb your daily life. A diagnosis comes when it is disturbing you. If you’re over it, you should not have a diagnosis.