Sorry, I didn’t realize I was needed to indicate my sarcasm. It is always about power and control when comes down to it, though you could see the sunk cost in this situation as being the power of the church. Honestly, I do believe this comic may be specifically using hats as a symbol for the power of the church at that time.

Do you think this is just a troll or an actual teen? I don’t want to waste my time on trolls.

Well, if you are never there, then you aren’t there for them. Thus, they will not be there for you in the future, because you haven’t bothered to be there when they needed it.

Ah, the sunk cost fallacy… of course that’s why we can’t have anything nice.

Bro, I am perfectly aware of all that. I have noticed this specific user making this comment more than once with no lmao (which is usually short for “laughing my ass off” not “out”) or other indication of levity.

I was trying to be a nice human and check in on a fellow human. Humor is a wonderful thing and can be a great tool for dealing with life, but it can also be a cover for fear and sadness that needs to be addressed.

Yes, I’m being serious in a meme community. You can choose to ignore me if this set you off. But in that case, maybe you need to consider how you are using humor to ignore the things you need to work on.

If you were simply trying to help someone you honestly thought was new to the internet, I appreciate your attempt. But your style of interaction makes me feel like you are trying to belittle an attempt to honestly show care for another human, and that is not cool.

Please, let’s not make that the norm it was at the other place. There are enough other places where you can go on the internet and be this kind of immature.

This is not a strictly ADHD thing. Many, many people have difficulty focusing when reading. It is just harder with ADHD to monitor and refocus.

I’m glad to hear that you are not struggling, and I appreciate your response. Take care of yourself; you deserve it.

I hope you are joking: I don’t think anyone is trying to make you feel attacked. More like, “Oh good, this isn’t just a me thing.” Which is kind of weird because I find solace in other people also struggling? Anyway, hope you have a nice day.

Sounds like a queen bee or just a mean girl. Hope she grows out of it and finds her inner self worth.

Thank you for the reasoned reply to this question. I had planned to write something very similar, but I was having problems being quite so measured. I hope OP reads your reply.

No, pantyhose should not hurt. If they hurt, they are too small. The problem with pantyhose that don’t go up so high is that they end up rolling down and bunching weirdly if they can’t anchor themselves high up. They are not as sturdy as leggings, which is why they roll down.

I hope that helps!

Good one! Thanks for sharing.