Thats where we disagree. I don’t think it’s automatically malicious. I think the person would have to be acting with malice for it to be malicious.

I’m not trans but I’m a feminine presenting man. Regardless, people can speak on whatever they want to, that doesn’t mean they have anything of value to add though.

Tolerating intolerance is a nothing burger of a philosophical/linguistic debate. It literally stems from right wing trolls making jokes about the supposed “tolerant left” and for some stupid fucking reason troglodyte leftists feel the need to engage good faith with the statement, everytime it’s brought up I just move on. It doesn’t mean anything.

Someones an asshole if they are deliberately calling someone something they don’t want to be called with the intention of bullying them. Intent matters more and in the above scenario the intent was clearly established to be adherence to a cultural norm, not to insult the person. It would be silly to go to Spain and be mad at them for not using preferred english pronouns even if it was made clear because like, they’re just speaking their language. They don’t mean anything by it. Any offence only exists in the mind of the offended.

Yeah that checks out lol

Yeah on rethinking the fundamental nature of my statement you’re probably right. I hate the stupid tolerance shit. Fuck being tolerant I’m intolerant as fuck who cares. With regards to pronouns, they are in my opinion entirely subjective. The first one that comes to my mind when looking at someone is as correct as the first word anyone else might think of. That being said I do consider the opinion of the person I’m talking about, it’s just complimentary to my own interpretation of gender

I mean just get over yourself right. Forcing someone to change their authentic self because it makes you uncomfortable seems antithetical to the trans experience.

I think it is literally just lowercase impact font but I’m pulling this answer straight out of my ass

Getting dressed up and having a big ol party

This is satire right?

I’m vegan

Honesty?

Not like a dog?

Yeah I think that’s pretty gross. This person stated that the person they are dating is emotionally unavailable and has potentially been abused as a child. But because they find them pretty, they decided to manipulate a person like they manipulate animals for selfish purposes. (Both are bad!) Their partner probably needs therapy not to be emotionally manipulated by their partner.