It doesn’t matter if you care. What matters is that the people being referred to care how they are being referred. It’s literally 0 extra effort for you to use the pronouns they prefer. Just use the pronouns that they want. It doesn’t inconvenience you at all.

The instance admin can choose whether it is full size or not.

The instructions didn’t tell me I needed to. I don’t know how someone is supposed to know that. I would have expected the instructions to at very least tell me I needed to make that and what the file name should be. But I did eventually figure it out. I had to search their github page to find the example one, then modify it for https

No OP but number goes up equals dopamine rush. Same reason I played RuneScape for so long.

It only started taking more than one day recently. My conspiracy theory is that it is so we have to watch the news for three days instead, which makes them a ton of money.

It’s not even just books for me. I can watch a movie a second time it’s like watching a whole new movie. Like I completely missed half the plot and most of the details. I can also watch 100 episodes of a TV show and realize that I don’t know the main character’s best friend’s name (the best friends who had 30 focus episodes and appeared in 86 of the 100 episodes).