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What is the best way to answer when my partner shows me a photo of him as a kid and asks "Was I cute as a kid?"

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What is the best way to answer when my partner shows me a photo of him as a kid and asks "Was I cute as a kid?"

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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · 1 year ago

Hey, I have a moral question.

If my boyfriend (25yo) shows me a photo of him as a kid, and asks me “Was I cute?” What is the appropriate response?

Of course my boyfriend is so cute, but saying that him as a kid was cute is inappropriate? Just because he was like 12yo in that picture?

Where is the line here? I usually refuse to have opinions on kids appearances because usually I have none, and I don’t know if saying that a kid looks “cute” is creepy.

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Absolutely fine to say your partner was a cute kid. Nothing creepy at all.

Saying something like “Got any nudes of you at that age?” Now that would be fucking creepy.

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